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Mom rues lack of cables on road
Daughter died in crossover accident.

 

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Lisa Forbis of Hallsville gathers plastic flowers today that had blown from a flower memorial for her daughter, Whitney Bentlage, in the median of Highway 63 near McHatton Road. Friends of Bentlage, 18, below, created the memorial after she and Elizabeth Shea, 20, of Columbia were killed in October when their northbound car went out of control, crossed the median and collided with a semi. If median cables had been in place, Forbis says, the young women still would be alive. 

 

On a Saturday in October, just three days after burying her daughter, Lisa Forbis drove on rain-slick Interstate 70 in a car with four grieving relatives on their way to Kansas City International Airport.

 

Forbis spotted an eastbound car starting to hydroplane. It careened off the highway into the grass median, heading at her westbound car. Before the vehicle could skid on about 40 feet of turf and into oncoming traffic, it struck three steel cables anchored in the median. All five people in the wrecked vehicle walked off without a scratch, Forbis said.

"I couldn’t believe it. All it did was it just encased the car and stopped it right there," Forbis said of the cables. "Everybody jumped out, and I pulled off on the side of the road to make sure they were OK, and they were all fine."

Forbis believes that if those same cables had been in place on Highway 63 a week earlier her daughter still would be alive.

"It infuriated me to think about it, because on 63 there was nothing there to prevent her from getting hurt or let the other driver get out of her way," she said. "It’s almost senseless."

On Oct. 12, daughter Whitney Bentlage, 18, of Ashland was driving north on Highway 63 with friend Elizabeth Shea, 20, of Columbia on their way to class at Merrill University of Beauty Arts and Science in Moberly.

Bentlage lost control of the car in the rain and skidded across the median before broadsiding an oncoming semitrailer. The women died at the scene.

"If they had" median cables "here, Whitney would be planning her wedding today and Liz would be at home with her son," Forbis said this morning as she revisited the crash site.

Median cables have become a hot topic recently. This week the Missouri Department of Transportation announced it would continue stringing median cables along key highways. Plans are for 55 miles of cable on Highway 67 and 45 miles of cable on Interstate 55 in southeast Missouri.

MoDOT also announced that median cables already in place have had a significant effect. In 2007, there were two fatal crossover accidents on sections of I-70, Interstate 44, Interstate 55 and Interstate 29, where the cables are installed, down from 55 crossover deaths on those same sections of road the year before cables were installed. No crossover fatalities have occurred on I-70 in MoDOT’s 13-county Central District since the cables were installed, compared to about two deaths a year previously.

"We expected the cables to improve safety numbers, but seeing these results was an unexpected thrill for all of us," MoDOT Director Pete Rahn said in a written statement.

MoDOT says a section of Highway 63 is prioritized to include cables, but it won’t occur until more funding is available.

"It’s on our radar," said Eric Schroeter, assistant district manager for MoDOT’s Central District. Schroeter said 10 stretches of highway are slated to get cables next, including the 30-mile stretch of Highway 63 between Jefferson City and Columbia. He estimated 2011 or 2012 as likely for installation.

Costs of $100,000 per mile have resulted in a slow pace of construction and relatively small area of protection. That puts the price of Jefferson City-Columbia cables at $3 million. Funding comes from federal "safety money" and MoDOT’s construction budget.

Maintenance of the cables has additional costs. Last year, along 70 miles of I-70 in the Central District, crews had to make 350 repairs after accidents, at an average cost of $1,000 per repair.

"They do try to recover that money from the insurance companies as people hit it, but" about one-quarter is paid for by the state, Schroeter said.

That means Highway 63 will continue to be a crossover hazard. Between 2002 and 2006, there were four fatal crossover accidents and six that caused disabling injuries between Jefferson City and Columbia. In December, a National Guard soldier and University of Missouri student, Neilson Rudd, 22, was killed in the median along Highway 63 after he stopped to help a motorist.

"I just wonder how many more kids have to die or be seriously hurt before we start changing things," Forbis said.

Lauren
 
Hey 5 months and it's raining today sucks. I wish things were different when you were alive. I feel like somethings just weren't enough. I feel like it's now all of your friends jobs to live their lives to the fullest every moment and I realized that I just wasn't doing a very good job of that. I feel like I 'm just at a stand still while years just fly by. . You are missed and thought about every second of the day. I love you.  By the way I never understood why you did the things you did I do now. 
momma and aayden
 

hey angel face! was just reflecting on aayden's first birthday! what a party that was, remember how long it lasted? from 3pm-9pm...LOL! we had so much fun and i remember how proud you were of him and just couldn't believe that he was already 1..

well here he is 2 and we just celebrated with the whole family tonight, he was treated like the prince that he is. everybody loves him and is impressed with how smart he is. you taught him alot the short time that you were with him liz. he knows his manners, he knows  his abcs and he is working on his colors. he knows his music and esp the music that you and him listened to together. he still calls for his mommy and it breaks my heart! i miss you so much liz, i still can't even believe that this accident happened! it has turned everybody's lives around!

eddie made aayden's birthday cake, i am going to send you a pic. it was a special cake made w/lots of love!   i love you baby , you will always be my baby. miss you so much! xoxooxoxoo

Kirstie Squires
 
So I was  just looking at old pictures and I came across the one where i am pushing you in a wheel chair at boone. Omg i started laughing thinkin about it i even called crystal, she sounded like she did when it was 4 oclock in the morning and she was ready to go home lol. Well any ways i was just thinkin about you and the nurse getting into a fight she was such a b**** lol. Well I miss you alot dawg! I dont know who i am going to ask for advise from now lol. Well I love ya !!!!!! I hope you like the pic lol love!
momma
 
hi baby doll, i was just sitting here thinking about 2 years ago when you were admitted to regional for the induction of aayden. i remember when you were so happy just to get things moving, since you were like 2 weeks over due!!  there were so many emotions going on. excitement, nervousness, and lots of other feelings. my baby girl was to become a mom herself. that was sad to me. but i knew that my baby was never going to leave me! ed and LOVED helping you out and we cherish that little boy!  tomorrow he will be 2!!! unbelieveable!!!  we are going to have  a small family thing tomorrow, and a great big party for him next week when jessica gets here.  i will make aayden a happy boy, but my heart is broken.  you should be here!!  HE KNOWS HIS MOMMA IS IN HEAVEN.  he can't comprehend what that place his, but he knows.  anyways, i remember your labor and delivery like it was yesterday. you were such a strong young woman and we were all so proud of you. still am!  i know that you will be watching as aayden gets older, just continue to do your "lizzie" magic and he will be ok.....he asks about you all the time.  lots and lots and lots of love baby!
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